3 Tips to Nail Your First Onsen Experience for Shy Foreigners

Eric Shinichi
3 Tips to Nail Your First Onsen Experience for Shy Foreigners

Visiting a Japanese onsen for the first time can be intimidating, especially for shy foreigners. There are a series of rules that bathers must abide by before entering an onsen. For one, the traditional Japanese onsen requires you to be completely nude. This means no towels or bathing suits.

These hot springs are typically public and separate men and women, but Konyoku (mixed-gender baths) also exist. Men and women bathe in a shared space and are still required to strip before entering.

Why should the bathers go completely nude, though? To understand this, we have to look back a few hundred years, to a time when Samurai warriors bathed naked inΒ Samuraiyu (onsens for samurai) to recover from battles. There is a medical term for this: balneotherapy, which refers to bathing for therapeutic purposes.

Balneotherapy is widely accepted in Japan because onsens are naturally rich in minerals with healing properties. One must be fully naked to receive most of its benefits. Onsens can aid recovery from surgery and are even believed to help control hypertension and soothe skin conditions.

Though the concept of birthday suits can still be daunting to some, here are three valuable tips to overcome your doubts and even change your mind.

Tip #1 For Shy Foreigners: Be Mentally Prepared

Two people relax in a steamy outdoor Japanese onsen, surrounded by rocks and wooden posts.
Compulsory nudity in a Japanese onsen

Before visiting an onsen, we suggest you prepare mentally. Give yourself a heads up on what you are going to see. People come in all body types, and they are not going to have flawless bodies either.

In reality, there will mainly be Oba chans, soaking in the water, relaxing or chatting among themselves. They are the ones who truly know that there is nothing to worry about, despite how wrinkly you are or how different your body looks from everyone else’s.

More importantly, be familiar with the rules and etiquette before your visit (read our latest Singaporean guide to using Japanese onsen). Otherwise, you might not even get the chance to dip.

Tip #2 For Shy Foreigners: Accept the Naked Truth

In this day and age, it is challenging to avoid unrealistic body images plastered all over the media. It has undeniably shaped our views of the ideal body type. The truth is, there is no cookie-cutter answer.

It is not surprising that this body myth has affected many, including women, and how they view their bodies. But in an onsen, no one is going to judge you for the way your body looks. It is a place of serenity, where people unwind and chat, except they have no clothes on.

Four people relax and converse in an outdoor Japanese onsen surrounded by rocks and light steam, with snow and bare trees in the background.
Bathers enjoying themselves in a Japanese onsen

First experiences will always be overwhelmed with insecurities, but it is all just in your mind. Learn to let go of your inhibitions and relax as you soak. Think of it this way that your fellow bathers will be too distracted the moment they soak in the waters anyway. So, conquer that first dip. You might even realise that the experience is not as bad as you thought it was.

Tip #3 For Shy Foreigners: Understand the Japanese Customs

Wooden stools and buckets are arranged at individual washing stations in a tiled Japanese onsen bathhouse, with hand showers and mirrors on the walls.
Rows of shower stalls are usually located next to onsen baths.

The Japanese onsen is a shared space where bathers enter with a clean body. Therefore, people wash their bodies thoroughly before entering the onsen, then cleanse themselves in it. This respects the Japanese belief that onsens are a gift from Mother Nature, and you must enter only when your body is clean. Even clothing and towels are thought to taint the water. So, keep this in mind when you visit an onsen, as there is a reason people bare it all before soaking.

Alternatively, you can always opt for private Rōtenburo or single baths and enjoy your privacy. Some of these baths are also more lenient with rules and may even allow you to soak with tattoos, whereas other traditional onsens forbid it.

Steaming outdoor Japanese onsen bath surrounded by rocks, wooden walls, and trees, with a lantern by the water’s edge on a cloudy day.
A private rotenburo bath

At Ikeda Spa, you can also immerse yourself in an authentic Japanese experience. Soak in the Hinoki Onsen Bath, which is reserved for single and couples patrons. Unwind all you want without having to feel uncomfortable!

A woman relaxes in a traditional Japanese indoor hot spring bath, resting her arms on the edge of the wooden poolβ€”a soothing retreat and one way how to keep body warm in winter.
Hinoki Onsen Bath at Ikeda Spa

Our baths use hinoki wood, Japan’s most prized cypress. It was once strictly reserved for royalty and sacred places. This precious wood releases mineral oils into the water, enriched with antibacterial properties and soothing scents to treat skin irritation, cuts, and rashes. A hinoki bath is enough to melt away your stress, anxiety and muscle aches while enhancing blood circulation.

For first-timers, Ikeda Spa offers a free Onsen Pass originally worth SGD 100. Book any 90-minute treatment to receive this irresistible deal. Click the banner below to get the coupon.

Now, you have no excuse not to dip in an onsen. Restore your skin’s glow with this nourishing treatment without travelling to Japan!

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Founder & Director

About the author:

Eric Shinichi is the founder and director of Ikeda Spa, Singapore's first authentic Japanese day spa, opened in Bukit Timah in 2009. A cosmetic chemist by training, he has spent 17 years adapting Japanese wellness traditions, from onsen ritual to anma massage, for Singapore. Ikeda Spa is among the most-awarded Japanese day spas in the country, recognised by Singapore Tatler, Harper's Bazaar Singapore, and Her World. He also founded IREN Shizen, a Japanese clean-beauty skincare brand, and Laboratoires Cosmefides, a cosmetics OEM and regulatory consultancy based in Singapore and Paris. His work spans three countries, anchored in the Japanese principle of omotenashi: hospitality without expectation of return.