White Valentine’s Day – 5 White-Themed Gifts for Your Lover

Eric Shinichi
White Valentine’s Day – 5 White-Themed Gifts for Your Lover

White Valentine’s Day is celebrated throughout Japan. This white-themed holiday falls one month after Valentine’s Day, on 14 March. During this time, couples, friends, and colleagues who received gifts on Valentine’s Day must return the gesture.

White Valentine’s Day: The Rich Japanese History

A shop worker in a yellow hat hands a boxed item to a customer across the counter, with dessert posters and white Valentine’s Day sweets visible in the background.
Men buy chocolates and gifts for women at a department store in Shinjuku on March 14, 2016, in Tokyo, Japan. On March 14th, one month after Valentine’s Day, Japanese men buy chocolates and gifts for female colleagues, friends, wives, girlfriends, and acquaintances in return for the gifts they received on Valentine’s Day. White Day was launched in Japan in 1978 by the National Confectionery Industry Association, and, in practice, only females give Valentine’s gifts. It is now also celebrated in China, Taiwan and South Korea.

White Day was initially called Marshmallow Day and was introduced in 1977. A Japanese confectionery store invented this holiday. Its executive, Zengo Ishimura, was flipping through a women’s magazine for inspiration when he came across a particular letter from a lady. It read:

It’s not really fair that men get chocolate from women on Valentine’s Day, but they don’t return the favour. Why don’t they give us something? A handkerchief, candy, even marshmallows…

Inspired by this, Ishimura dedicated a day where men can express their appreciation to the women in their lives. He asked the women in his company to choose a day they would like to be pampered with gifts; March 14 emerged as the winner.

His confectionery store concocted chocolate-filled marshmallows as a sweet sentiment for men to surprise their loved ones. This holiday gained traction and spread throughout Japan by the 1980s.

The market standardised Marshmallow Day to White Day and commercialised it. Soon, people accepted white chocolates and other tangible items as White Day gifts.

White Valentine’s Day: 5 White-Themed Gifts

White Chocolate

Heart-shaped white chocolates with a red filling are arranged on a pink heart-shaped plate, perfect for a white Valentine’s Day, with a ribbon and "LOVE U" letters in the background.

The Japanese call this classic gift Honmei-choco. It translates to “true feelings chocolate”, reserved for that special someone.

In Japan, these chocolates are usually high quality and expensive, but men who want a cheaper alternative will make them themselves.

You do not have to break the bank on chocolates, as gifting handmade ones can prove just as valuable as, if not more valuable than, the view the recipient has of you.

Here is how you can make your own Honmei-choco.

Hard Candy

Three heart-shaped resin ornaments with pink, white, and dark flowers inside, placed on a white surface with pink and grey satin ribbons—perfect for a romantic white Valentine’s Day.

The Japanese believe hard candy represents attraction towards the receiver. The mentality behind this is that hard candy does not dissolve as soon as you eat it, so your lover can enjoy its taste for much longer.

Marshmallow

A white ramekin filled with large white marshmallows sits against a plain white background, perfect for a cosy white Valentine's Day treat.

In the 1970s, chocolate-covered marshmallows were the norm before White Day skyrocketed in popularity. Marshmallows symbolise pure love, whereas their chocolate coating stands for reciprocated love.

However, because marshmallows dissolve quickly as you consume them, they are now perceived to express a lack of interest in the other party. While some avoid giving marshmallows as White Day gifts, others are unaware of their hidden meaning. These all depend on the place, receiver, and generation.

In addition, men can pair this with a handwritten note to clarify their intentions behind the gift. No confusion is inflicted, so there is no need to fear away from this treat for White Day!

White Lingerie

A woman in a white lace outfit is lying on her side on a white bed, resting her head on one hand and looking ahead. The bright, softly lit setting evokes the gentle charm of a white Valentine’s Day.

On White Day, Japanese men would gift their lovers white clothing, particularly lingerie. Unlike any other gift, you might not want to get lingerie at the start of your relationship.

Despite being hit-or-miss, lingerie can make for a classy and elegant surprise for the ladies. It typically shows that you know what looks good on your significant other.

With that being said, shopping for lingerie comes with a quandary. Getting the correct size and preferred designs for your lady can be tough. So, you might want to see what she already has prior to.

White Valentine’s Spa Treats

Tangible gifts aside, why not surprise your sweet Valentine with a luxurious experience at a Japanese day spa? Inspired by White Day in Japan, Ikeda Spa has set aside luxurious treats for lovebirds. Skip the candy this year and click here to check out our Celebrate White Day Spa Promo to treat her to a Japanese relaxation experience she will never forget.

Surprise your lover this Valentine’s Day with the Valentine Spa Promotion, featuring unique, swoon-worthy treats that are sure to set the mood.

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Founder & Director

About the author:

Eric Shinichi is the founder and director of Ikeda Spa, Singapore's first authentic Japanese day spa, opened in Bukit Timah in 2009. A cosmetic chemist by training, he has spent 17 years adapting Japanese wellness traditions, from onsen ritual to anma massage, for Singapore. Ikeda Spa is among the most-awarded Japanese day spas in the country, recognised by Singapore Tatler, Harper's Bazaar Singapore, and Her World. He also founded IREN Shizen, a Japanese clean-beauty skincare brand, and Laboratoires Cosmefides, a cosmetics OEM and regulatory consultancy based in Singapore and Paris. His work spans three countries, anchored in the Japanese principle of omotenashi: hospitality without expectation of return.